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  1. Female Fantasy and Sexual Positions Survey July 30th, 2010
    It's sexuality survey time! Thank you to those who have participated in the past. Your contribution has helped people to better understand each other, experience adventure, fun, communication, and connection with their lovers.My books are unique in that they include creative scenarios, easy to foll... Read More
  2. The Wicked Tongue Game-7 Questions With Dr. Sonia July 29th, 2010
    I had the honor to be interviewed by legendary sex writer, Susan Crain Bakos. She asked 7 really great questions about oral sex. Check it out and while you are there, subscribe to Susan Crain Bakos's Sexy Prime Blog. Susan's perspective is always fresh, informative, and sex positive. http://sexyp... Read More
  3. What does sex mean to you? July 2nd, 2010
    One of the first things we learn in sex school is that sex is just sex. We as human beings, add our own meaning to the word. Words are just symbols. The string of letters S-E-X form a word that we add our own meaning to, just as we add our own meaning to the act. Sex means different things to dif... Read More
  4. Do 80% of women really "fake it?" Commentary on MSNBC story.. July 1st, 2010
    I found the story featured in MSNBC, titled: Sorry guys: 80% of women fake it, to be rather disturbing, to say the least. To start the data, facts, or statistics were often not reported. Even further, the information was not presented accurately or even fairly. It put a negative spin on w... Read More
  5. Low Sexual Desire Part 2: Developing an Awareness June 29th, 2010
    My primary objective is to talk about having an awareness for your sexual concerns. If we bring awareness to them, we bring light, and with light, we can begin to take steps to heal and create the life we want.I generally do not use clinical terms when coaching clients because it’s easy to develo... Read More
  6. Low Sexual Desire-What is it? Who does it affect? June 28th, 2010
    A low sexual desire, or a desire gap between partners is the most common concern that I see from my clients.Often times we take our sexual desire for granted, but when it's gone, it doesn't go unnoticed by individuals or their partners. It is often misunderstood, but not unnoticed. How can we not no... Read More
  7. Sex Before the "I Do's" June 26th, 2010
    It is a few hours before their wedding and the beautiful, blushing bride to be takes her man into a vacant room and gives him the best blowjob ever.The groom returns to his groomsman and claims, “I am the luckiest man on the planet. I can look forward to a lifetime of great sex and blowjobs.”Th... Read More
  8. Dr. Sonia's Cosmo interview: John Mayer, Being a Good in Bed, and Going Obtuse June 24th, 2010
    I was interviewed by Cosmo. They wanted to know what John Mayer meant when he said:“It’s about being obtuse with an angle. Then, I go up and over.”I wasn't able to get in touch with John, but I'm sure he would appreciate the positions I prepared to add to his repertoire.Getting into an Obtus... Read More
  9. Help! He Goes Soft When I Put on a Condom June 24th, 2010
    It happens..... the condom enters the picture and he get's soft.There are several reasons for this happening, but to start, don't take it personally. Sensitivity is lost while wearing a condom AND sensitivity could be lost with the THOUGHT of wearing a condom. You can show him a new way! The fir... Read More
  10. The Slinging Dixie- Sex In the Car June 22nd, 2010
    Get his rod hot with you in the back seat, legs up in the air and wrapped in the on the go car sling. “The Slinging Dixie” is not the typical do it in the car, sex position. It involves seat belts and lots of outrageous variations that is sure to get you in that playful, adventurous space again.... Read More
  11. Naked Conversations April 28th, 2010
    Come take off your clothes and lie here with me naked. Hold me tight. Press your bare chest against mine. Lay on top of me and let me feel you. Naked without clothes, we are more alike than different, both of us with needs and feelings. Naked without shields; I thought my shield would protect me fr... Read More
  12. Spectacular Sex Moves He'll Never Foget April 14th, 2010
    With each new book I write, I think it was better than the one before it. I haven't gotten feedback from my readers yet, but I think my third book, "Spectacular Sex Moves He'll Never Forget" is my best work to date. It certainly was a lot of fun to write and practice. (A special thanks to the par... Read More
  13. Win Free Books-Submit Your Best Sex Tip March 3rd, 2010
    Today is Sexuality Day! Submit Your Best Sex Tip and have a chance to win FREE Books.I will randomly choose an entry to receive free autographed copies of Oral Sex She'll Never Forget and Oral Sex He'll Never Forget.Please send entries to Dr.Sonia@TheHappyEndingsCompany.comAll responses will remain ... Read More
  14. Sex Toys, "Hysteria" and Our Sexual History March 3rd, 2010
    In 1653 Pieter van Foreest published a medical compendium for an affliction called Hysteria (literally, “womb disease”), which was used to describe a woman’s display of mental or emotional distress. The medical treatment for hysteria was to bring the female to orgasm. [T... Read More
  15. Talking With Your Kids About: Sex February 27th, 2010
    By Dr. Sonia BorgAs a professional speaker for colleges around the country, I speak with students everyday who are dangerously uneducated on sex. Research reveals that by the age of twenty-four, one in three college students will have contracted a sexually transmitted infection and 40% of students ... Read More
  16. The Spin Cycle BJ: Finally Get Help With Laundry- Sample Chapter February 26th, 2010
    Here is one of my favorite scenes, The Spin Cycle BJ, from Oral Sex He'll Never Forget.http://www.quaysidepub.com/images/spincyclebj.pdfEnjoy! If you would like to be inspired with 51 more sexy scene ideas and techniques, purchase your own copy of Oral Sex He'll Never Forget, by clicking on the link... Read More
  17. Playing With The Balls, Boys, or Twins February 26th, 2010
    “I love getting my balls licked and kissed!” AnonymousCall it what you will, “boys,” “twins,” but most men love it when you play with their balls. Here are a few of many ways to play:Alternate licks from shaft to balls. Flick your tongue quickly and lightly, almost barely touching them, ... Read More
  18. "Oral Sex She'll Never Forget:50 Positions and Techniques That Will Make Her Orgasm Like She Never Has Before"....just released February 18th, 2010
    No sex technique says “I love you” quite the way that cunnilingus does.Oral adoration of her most intimate parts is one of the greatest gifts you can give a woman. Like every gift that will be cherished, it must be right for the recipient and offered from the giver’s heart. A few aimless lic... Read More
  19. Wetter is Better February 17th, 2010
    If you have read Oral Sex He’ll Never Forget: 52 Positions and Techniques Guaranteed to Blow Your Man Away, you know that I’m a big fan of lube.Simply put, wetter is generally better when it comes to sex and that includes intercourse, blow jobs, anal sex and hand jobs. Your saliva works, but le... Read More
  20. The Art and Skill of Being a Good Lover January 24th, 2010
    Is it an art or a skill? Being a good lover requires both art and skill. However, if I had to narrow it down to one attribute that made my best lovers the best, my great lovers the greatest, it would be how in tuned they were to my sexual response cycle. They all possessed a general awareness of t... Read More
  21. Sex as a Metaphor for Life January 21st, 2010
    Is your sex life a metaphor for your life? Do you have trouble asking for sex? Do you have trouble asking for what you want in life? Is your life a routine? Is sex a routine? An ongoing longitudinal study at The Institute for The Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, is finding that people tend to... Read More
  22. Sex In The Moment January 20th, 2010
    Many experts, such as Eckhart Tolle, discuss the importance of living in the moment. This philosophy is true for all areas of our life, including sex. If we are not in the moment, our energies are scattered and we are not using our energies efficiently. If we are not using our energies efficient... Read More
  23. Aren’t you glad you had that orgasm? January 17th, 2010
    I was at the gym the other day and while I was packing my bag a woman asked if I was done with my workout. I explained that I was done, but almost didn’t make it in that day. She told me that there was something known about working out and that was that “once you worked out, you never regretted... Read More
  24. Are You Being AmbiSEXtrous? January 15th, 2010
    Are you single handedly making love to your partner? I mean, do you only use your dominant hand during sex? Learning to be ambisextrous has its’ benefits. When you touch your lover with a non-dominant hand, you can access different angles and different positions. Every great masturbator knows t... Read More
  25. How to Get Your Woman to Have Sex with You Tonight! January 13th, 2010
    By nature, women excel at seeing big picture views. The instant we step in the door we see: the mail on the counter, the crooked pillow, your socks on the floor, dirty dishes in the sink, and the list goes on. It is so distracting to us that we can’t sit down until its done and then there is AL... Read More